Talk about a shrinking population. A survey of Japanese people aged 18 to 34 found that almost 70 percent of unmarried men and 60 percent of unmarried women are not in a relationship. Moreover, many of them have never got close and cuddly. Around 42 percent of the men and Far from getting together and getting it on, the sexes are growing apart.
In sexless Japan, almost half of single young men and women are virgins: survey
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Japanese culture is at times pretty much the exact reverse of western culture. Photo by iStock. At the same time, like folks in most other developed countries, Japanese people have been inundated with media from America and are avid travelers. However, because so few foreigners live in Japan, their best chance of meeting one in their normal lives is if they get lucky enough to have a native English or other language speaking teacher in junior high or high school. Many people will even go to English Conversation schools in the hopes of making foreign friends. Many of the organizers also run other kinds of seasonal events as well. Cheapos will be pleased to hear that many of them include a buffet which is almost worth the typically around yen entry fee.
'Don't Be Gross!' 10 Tips to Get Japanese Girls: Guys Respond
A i Aoyama is a sex and relationship counsellor who works out of her narrow three-storey home on a Tokyo back street. Her first name means "love" in Japanese, and is a keepsake from her earlier days as a professional dominatrix. Back then, about 15 years ago, she was Queen Ai, or Queen Love, and she did "all the usual things" like tying people up and dripping hot wax on their nipples. Her work today, she says, is far more challenging.
Finding time for romance in Japan can sometimes be a difficult task. Many secondary schools prohibit their students from dating, under the logic that doing so keeps them focused on their studies. In college, most social interactions are centered around group activities with members of the same extracurricular clubs or research teams. Still, the results of a recent survey show the practice to be surprisingly common among its participants. Also,