That would happen later. First, I had to come out to myself. Growing up in a socially conservative religion, I was taught that sex was reserved for monogamously married men and women. Well, I could chalk that up to appraisal, not desire.
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At OprahMag. When I first met my now-husband in April , I made a point of telling him about my history of dating both men and women—and how I came out as bisexual at 16 years old to my friends and family, who offered mixed reactions. My friends were supportive; my family didn't quite understand. But that confusion I first encountered with my parents is a common reaction for anyone who identifies as a bisexual person. For me, this means that I am attracted to both cisgender men and women, though I am also attracted to others like trans women and men on the gender spectrum. I knew I was bisexual long before I had sex or even dated.
Vanessa Dillon, 41, is a bisexual woman marrying Bob Bissonnette, 36, a bisexual man. Each has dated people of more than one gender in the past. Not adhering to monogamy, they might continue to do so after they are married.
Bisexuality Flag. Most people wouldn't believe that happy bisexual marriages are possible -- where two openly bisexual people have taken vows to love, honor, and cherish one another. But it can and does work out.